Different

Something different has the quality of not being the same as another thing, being distinct.

It was a while before we came to realize that our place was the very house of difference rather the security of any one particular difference. ~ Audre Lorde

Quotes

• We leven allen verschillend en toch gelijk.
  • We're all leading lives that are different and yet the same.
  • Anne Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl (1942 - 1944), 6 July 1944.
  • Variant translation: Our lives are all different and yet the same.

• We've looked and looked, but after all where are we?
  Do we know any better where we are,
  And how it stands between the night tonight
  And a man with a smoky lantern chimney?
  How different from the way it ever stood?
  • Robert Frost, The Star-Splitter.

• I shall be telling this with a sigh
  Somewhere ages and ages hence:
  Two roads diverged in a wood, and I —
  I took the one less traveled by,
  And that has made all the difference.
  • Robert Frost, "The Road Not Taken", st. 4 (1916)

• Every difference of opinion is not a difference of principle.
  • Thomas Jefferson, inaugural address (March 4, 1801); in Andrew A. Lipscomb, ed., The Writings of Thomas Jefferson (1904), vol. 3, p. 319.

• Being women together was not enough. We were different.
  Being gay-girls together was not enough. We were different.
  Being Black together was not enough. We were different.
  Being Black women together was not enough. We were different.
  Being Black dykes together was not enough. We were different.

  Each of us had our own needs and pursuits, and many different alliances. Self-preservation warned some of us that we could not afford to settle for one easy definition, one narrow individuation of self. At the Bag, at Hunter College, uptown in Harlem, at the library, there was a piece of the real me bound in each place, and growing.

  It was a while before we came to realize that our place was the very house of difference rather the security of any one particular difference.

  • Audre Lorde, Zami: A New Spelling of My Name (1982)

• Difference is that raw and powerful connection from which our personal power is forged.
  • Audre Lorde, The Master’s Tools Will Never Dismantle the Master’s House. 1984. Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches. Ed. Berkeley, CA: Crossing Press. 110-114. 2007

• If I could wake up in a different place, at a different time, could I wake up as a different person?
  • Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club (1996), chapter 3.

• Unity isn't established by ignoring the differences between different groups, but by persuading everyone to take all the different struggles seriously.
  • Keeanga-Yamahtta Taylor, The fight against racism doesn't stop here (July 23, 2013), Socialist Worker.